As I don know wt love is so I cant cum out with deeper meanings,bt till now wt life has taught me by knowing various incidences I feel tat love is left far behind, its just infatuation which has strengthen his position in today's world. These days relationships r on fake terms r v can say temporary basis tat is have a crush on somebody fr a sometime ,use that person n just finished it off…which is often termed as infatuation at the end.
The most easiest part is to get in to these kinds f relationships but must difficult part is to deal with d consequences of such relationships, People once heart broken,becomes too hard,cold,,there perspective changes n be cum numb. N wen this situation arises d situation f depression takes his seat..which is dangerous.
If we see are environment,every then n now r friend's comes up with d prob tat ,v broke off,,n v r upset ,tat person did this n all..n v give them a simple advice of move onn,,n v flash sum beautiful dialogues n finally v r done with d,,formality of being friend's ,,n v feel tat its sufficient,,v r done with r job..
But d person who's suffering knows,,how it feels wen heart breaks,,n how long time will b taken to recover frm such a brutal hurt,. N at tat time person feels there's no love only pain n whatever was it it ws a mistake ,,a infatuation.
Here also persons thinkin does'nt end up,,he started gettin pulled off from relationships..,starts makin boundaries n at d end love theory is vanished n rude,selfish world theory is activated.
I know there would be people who r in serious relationships, n they must have a strong believe in this love part n I really wish loads f good look fr there future n God Bless them with same love n tender care in tere relationships, but tese days majority is f heart broken people n its increasing day by day an finally it is resulting in creating a mind set f infatuation n hatred among people..n discouraging people to get into any kind f relationships.. which will,, at d end not result in a healthy outcome..
So we people should be bit genuine fr others n help them not to form such opinions by takin a a very first step from ourself only tat if v genuinely like sum1,,ten only v should approach tat person to get into any relationships n should try n carry out it till d end with full trust,loyalty,care n a genuine love..:-) so v can have a better world tomorrow n healthy perspectives tomorrow.:-).
Note:This post was originally posted by me to one of my dear friend's personal Blog, My Musings than to my personal blogUnpredictable life n now here:-)
another heart-felt post by Gauri...u write really well...my sincere advice is u take up blogging seriously and post these in ur blog Unpredictable life too...hope u don mind me blog rolling U :)
ReplyDeletehey Rajesh!:-) Sorry for repling u bit late.:)
ReplyDeleteI wudn't mind u blog rolling me:),but d prob is m already handling 5 blogs n m very inconsistent on each of them:D n if il b same wid ur blog also ten,it wud definatley not be a fruitfull ting na.! isliye sumtimes m very hesitant joing ny blog! n thank you once again for such warm words:-)
take care!
thatssss soo true..
ReplyDeleted person who's suffering knows,,how it feels wen heart breaks,,n how long time will b taken to recover frm such a brutal hurt,. N at tat time person feels there's no love only pain n whatever was it it ws a mistake ,,a infatuation.
but then at the same time.. may i add.. its better to have loved n lost than to have never loved at all..
we end up having different feelings towards different ppl.. thus some end up being special.. some less special..
and love is one such feeling.. only few strike the right chord ( by few.. i am including lost love.. one way love.. love for ur parents.. family.. friends ..)
lovely post.. n true emotions.. :)
:-):-). Thanx Ani, but i wud like to share one ting tat, Thers no cateogry of being very special r less spec. Life becomes complicated tere only wen v start categorisng in our personal close relationships. If someone is special it wil be through out life,if its not it wil never be,tas wt life is..:)
ReplyDeletetake care!
n ters one n only love wich is unconditonal that is parents..aprat frm tat nthn is unconditional:)
ReplyDeletetake care.