June 8, 2009

Change!!!

People who know me would agree that I am a very practical person… I like reasoning things out, I don’t really react on impulse and I always judge a situation before I come to a conclusion. But if there’s one thing that I just cant come to terms with, then it is CHANGE. ‘Change’… it’s such an eerie, bizarre event which takes place in everyone’s life… I mean, why do things and people have to change? Why can’t everything just remain the way it is…? But the truth is… things change, people change…. and all we can do is watch helplessly, as time engulfs us and churns out different situations in our lives… yes, changes happen without us even realizing, and by the time we realize, it is too late to change the change!!

And like all changes I dread, there’s one more thing that changed in my life…. And that is our very own Writer’s Lounge… agreeably, I was never the most active member on the Lounge so I ideally don’t have a say in this, but I definitely am one of the oldest members on the Lounge… and somehow it’s hard to see that most of the people I shared my lounge experiences with are nowhere in the picture now… It was like zip zap zoom… and everything changed!!

The Lounge has got lovely talents right now, like always… And am more than glad to see all the new members doing so well… but I miss my old pals like crazy… Asbah… Priyanka… Shruti… The Lover.... where are you guys? Life’s just not going to be the same without these people around… and however hard it may be to accept, I know that those good old times are never going to come back.

Most of the people deal with change well…. Some don’t… and I am one of them. I still haven’t accepted this change and I don’t know how long it will take for me to accept it. But then, as someone rightly said… “Change is the only constant thing in life”… People change, things change…. and so does life!!!

5 comments:

  1. Mona...

    I've often heard my dad saying -
    'Change is inevitable'...

    Its so true... you cannot stop this... changes will come!
    Asbah... even I miss her a lot...
    Priyanka... don't worry, she is still around...
    I do understand that those times will never come back... but instead of thinking about the past, I think you have many more people at the Lounge to speak to now... :)
    You might re-live those moments with an all new set of people, isn't it?

    So stay happy...
    And we all are here for ya! :)

    Stay Blessed! :)

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  2. WELL IT ISN TRUE....ASBAH ND OTHERS WILL BE BACK ND THE LOUNGE WILL BE BACK IN ACTION.. ...:)

    REMEMBER ITS OUR LOUNGE

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  3. I was thinking something similar.There're some people I love to read,but I cannot find any of their posts nowadays,neither on their personal blog nor on the LOUNGE.I feel scared to comment[as I don't know them),so I usually refrain from commenting but I miss all of them...!

    Hope the old members get back into action along with the new ones,so that we can learn to write better!! ^_^

    :)

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  4. well you can just start writing... isnt it what we are all here for ? :P

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  5. they will be back...and they will be back with a bang

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